feat: Add --start flag to bd daemon, show help with no args

Currently 'bd daemon' with no args immediately starts the daemon. This is
inconsistent with other daemon management commands like --stop, --status,
etc. and makes the command less discoverable for new users.

Changes:
- Add --start flag to explicitly start daemon
- Show help text when no operation flags provided
- Update auto-start logic to use --start flag
- Update startDaemon() to pass --start when forking
- Update all documentation to use 'bd daemon --start'
- Update MCP Python client error messages

The MCP docs already incorrectly showed 'bd daemon start' which doesn't
work, so this change fixes that documentation bug while improving UX.

Auto-start still works correctly - it now passes --start internally.

Fixes bd-gfu

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Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>

integrations/beads-mcp/SETUP_DAEMON.md

@@ -28,7 +28,7 @@ Edit `~/Library/Application Support/Claude/claude_desktop_config.json`:
 In your beads project directory:
 
 ```bash
-bd daemon start
+bd daemon --start
 ```
 
 The daemon will:
@@ -108,19 +108,19 @@ If you want to temporarily use CLI mode:
 
 ```bash
 # Start daemon
-bd daemon start
+bd daemon --start
 
 # Check status
-bd daemon status
+bd daemon --status
 
 # View logs
-bd daemon logs
+bd daemons logs .
 
 # Stop daemon
-bd daemon stop
+bd daemon --stop
 
 # Restart daemon
-bd daemon stop && bd daemon start
+bd daemon --stop && bd daemon --start
 ```
 
 ## Troubleshooting
@@ -130,7 +130,7 @@ bd daemon stop && bd daemon start
 Start the daemon in your beads project:
 ```bash
 cd ~/src/vc/adar/beads
-bd daemon start
+bd daemon --start
 ```
 
 ### Wrong database being used

integrations/beads-mcp/src/beads_mcp/bd_daemon_client.py

@@ -110,7 +110,7 @@ class BdDaemonClient(BdClientBase):
         
         # No socket found anywhere
         raise DaemonNotRunningError(
-            "Daemon socket not found. Is the daemon running? Try: bd daemon (local) or bd daemon --global"
+            "Daemon socket not found. Is the daemon running? Try: bd daemon --start"
         )
 
     async def _send_request(self, operation: str, args: Dict[str, Any]) -> Any: