fix: improve JSONL-only mode detection and error messages (GH #534)

- Add JSONL-only mode detection in ensureStoreActive() with context-aware
  error messages that suggest correct actions based on project state
- Improve error messages in main.go to detect JSONL presence and suggest
  appropriate solutions (bd init, --no-db flag, or config.yaml setting)
- Update documentation to use issues.jsonl as canonical filename:
  - AGENT_INSTRUCTIONS.md, README.md, resolve-beads-conflict.md
  - docs/GIT_INTEGRATION.md
- Update hook template comments to clarify issues.jsonl is canonical
  while maintaining backward compatibility for beads.jsonl

Fixes #534

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Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>

.beads-hooks/pre-commit

@@ -4,7 +4,7 @@
 # bd (beads) pre-commit hook
 #
 # This hook ensures that any pending bd issue changes are flushed to
-# .beads/beads.jsonl before the commit is created, preventing the
+# .beads/issues.jsonl before the commit is created, preventing the
 # race condition where daemon auto-flush fires after the commit.
 #
 # Installation:
@@ -35,7 +35,7 @@ if ! bd sync --flush-only >/dev/null 2>&1; then
     exit 1
 fi
 
-# Stage all tracked JSONL files (beads.jsonl, issues.jsonl for backward compat, deletions.jsonl for deletion propagation)
+# Stage all tracked JSONL files (issues.jsonl is canonical, beads.jsonl for backward compat, deletions.jsonl for deletion propagation)
 # git add is harmless if file doesn't exist
 for f in .beads/beads.jsonl .beads/issues.jsonl .beads/deletions.jsonl; do
     [ -f "$f" ] && git add "$f" 2>/dev/null || true