docs: Make 'land the plane' push mandatory and emphatic

CRITICAL FIX: Agents were stopping before git push, saying 'ready to
push when you are!' which breaks multi-agent coordination workflows.

Changes:
- Make push MANDATORY in landing workflow
- Add emphatic warnings: NEVER stop before push succeeds
- Explicitly state 'ready to push' is a FAILURE
- Explain multi-agent coordination impact
- Add verification requirements

This should prevent agents from leaving work unpushed.

AGENT_INSTRUCTIONS.md

@@ -83,12 +83,14 @@ The 30-second debounce provides a **transaction window** for batch operations -
 
 ## Landing the Plane
 
-**When the user says "let's land the plane"**, follow this clean session-ending protocol:
+**When the user says "let's land the plane"**, you MUST complete ALL steps below. The plane is NOT landed until `git push` succeeds. NEVER stop before pushing. NEVER say "ready to push when you are!" - that is a FAILURE.
+
+**MANDATORY WORKFLOW - COMPLETE ALL STEPS:**
 
 1. **File beads issues for any remaining work** that needs follow-up
 2. **Ensure all quality gates pass** (only if code changes were made) - run tests, linters, builds (file P0 issues if broken)
 3. **Update beads issues** - close finished work, update status
-4. **Sync and PUSH everything to remote** - Work methodically to ensure both local and remote are synchronized:
+4. **PUSH TO REMOTE - NON-NEGOTIABLE** - This step is MANDATORY. Execute ALL commands below:
    ```bash
    # Pull first to catch any remote changes
    git pull --rebase
@@ -101,13 +103,21 @@ The 30-second debounce provides a **transaction window** for batch operations -
    # Sync the database (exports to JSONL, commits)
    bd sync
 
-   # CRITICAL: Push everything to remote
+   # MANDATORY: Push everything to remote
+   # DO NOT STOP BEFORE THIS COMMAND COMPLETES
    git push
 
-   # Verify push succeeded
+   # MANDATORY: Verify push succeeded
-   git status  # Should show "up to date with origin/main"
+   git status  # MUST show "up to date with origin/main"
    ```
-   **CRITICAL**: The plane has NOT landed until `git push` completes successfully. If you don't push, the work is still on the runway!
+
+   **CRITICAL RULES:**
+   - The plane has NOT landed until `git push` completes successfully
+   - NEVER stop before `git push` - that leaves work stranded locally
+   - NEVER say "ready to push when you are!" - YOU must push, not the user
+   - If `git push` fails, resolve the issue and retry until it succeeds
+   - The user is managing multiple agents - unpushed work breaks their coordination workflow
+
 5. **Clean up git state** - Clear old stashes and prune dead remote branches:
    ```bash
    git stash clear                    # Remove old stashes
@@ -118,6 +128,8 @@ The 30-second debounce provides a **transaction window** for batch operations -
    - Provide a prompt for the user to give to you in the next session
    - Format: "Continue work on bd-X: [issue title]. [Brief context about what's been done and what's next]"
 
+**REMEMBER: Landing the plane means EVERYTHING is pushed to remote. No exceptions. No "ready when you are". PUSH IT.**
+
 **Example "land the plane" session:**
 
 ```bash
@@ -131,15 +143,15 @@ golangci-lint run ./...
 # 3. Close finished issues
 bd close bd-42 bd-43 --reason "Completed" --json
 
-# 4. Sync and PUSH everything
+# 4. PUSH TO REMOTE - MANDATORY, NO STOPPING BEFORE THIS IS DONE
 git pull --rebase
 # If conflicts in .beads/beads.jsonl, resolve thoughtfully:
 #   - git checkout --theirs .beads/beads.jsonl (accept remote)
 #   - bd import -i .beads/beads.jsonl (re-import)
 #   - Or manual merge, then import
 bd sync        # Export/import/commit
-git push       # CRITICAL - Must push!
+git push       # MANDATORY - THE PLANE IS STILL IN THE AIR UNTIL THIS SUCCEEDS
-git status     # Verify "up to date with origin/main"
+git status     # MUST verify "up to date with origin/main"
 
 # 5. Clean up git state
 git stash clear
@@ -158,8 +170,11 @@ bd show bd-44 --json
 - Summary of what was completed this session
 - What issues were filed for follow-up
 - Status of quality gates (all passing / issues filed)
+- Confirmation that ALL changes have been pushed to remote
 - Recommended prompt for next session
 
+**CRITICAL: Never end a "land the plane" session without successfully pushing. The user is coordinating multiple agents and unpushed work causes severe rebase conflicts.**
+
 ## Agent Session Workflow
 
 **IMPORTANT for AI agents:** When you finish making issue changes, always run: