fix: NixOS symlink compatibility for mtime and permission checks (#459)

* fix: use os.Lstat for symlink-safe mtime and permission checks

On NixOS and other systems using symlinks heavily (e.g., home-manager),
os.Stat follows symlinks and returns the target's metadata. This causes:

1. False staleness detection when JSONL is symlinked - mtime of target
   changes unpredictably when symlinks are recreated
2. os.Chmod failing or changing wrong file's permissions when target
   is in read-only location (e.g., /nix/store)
3. os.Chtimes modifying target's times instead of the symlink itself

Changes:
- autoimport.go: Use Lstat for JSONL mtime in CheckStaleness()
- import.go: Use Lstat in TouchDatabaseFile() for JSONL mtime
- export.go: Skip chmod for symlinked files
- multirepo.go: Use Lstat for JSONL mtime cache
- multirepo_export.go: Use Lstat for mtime, skip chmod for symlinks
- doctor/fix/permissions.go: Skip permission fixes for symlinked paths

These changes are safe cross-platform:
- On systems without symlinks, Lstat behaves identically to Stat
- Symlink permission bits are ignored on Unix anyway
- The extra Lstat syscall overhead is negligible

Fixes symlink-related data loss on NixOS. See GitHub issue #379.

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* test: add symlink behavior tests for NixOS compatibility

Add tests that verify symlink handling behavior:
- TestCheckStaleness_SymlinkedJSONL: verifies mtime detection uses
  symlink's own mtime (os.Lstat), not target's mtime (os.Stat)
- TestPermissions_SkipsSymlinkedBeadsDir: verifies chmod is skipped
  for symlinked .beads directories
- TestPermissions_SkipsSymlinkedDatabase: verifies chmod is skipped
  for symlinked database files while still fixing .beads dir perms

Also adds devShell to flake.nix for local development with go, gopls,
golangci-lint, and sqlite tools.

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internal/autoimport/autoimport.go

@@ -289,7 +289,11 @@ func CheckStaleness(ctx context.Context, store storage.Storage, dbPath string) (
 	dbDir := filepath.Dir(dbPath)
 	jsonlPath := utils.FindJSONLInDir(dbDir)
 
-	stat, err := os.Stat(jsonlPath)
+	// Use Lstat to get the symlink's own mtime, not the target's.
+	// This is critical for NixOS and other systems where JSONL may be symlinked.
+	// Using Stat would follow symlinks and return the target's mtime, which can
+	// cause false staleness detection when symlinks are recreated (e.g., by home-manager).
+	stat, err := os.Lstat(jsonlPath)
 	if err != nil {
 		if os.IsNotExist(err) {
 			// JSONL doesn't exist - expected for new repo