feat(status): add deferred status for icebox issues (bd-4jr)

Add 'deferred' as a valid issue status for issues that are deliberately
put on ice - not blocked by dependencies, just postponed for later.

Changes:
- Add StatusDeferred constant and update IsValid() validation
- Add DeferredIssues to Statistics struct with counting in both SQLite
  and memory storage
- Add 'bd defer' command to set status to deferred
- Add 'bd undefer' command to restore status to open
- Update help text across list, search, count, dep, stale, and config
- Update MCP server models and tools to accept deferred status
- Add deferred to blocker status checks (schema, cache, ready, compact)
- Add StatusDeferred to public API exports (beads.go, internal/beads)
- Add snowflake styling for deferred in dep tree and graph views

Semantics:
- deferred vs blocked: deferred is a choice, blocked is forced
- deferred vs closed: deferred will be revisited, closed is done
- Deferred issues excluded from 'bd ready' (already works since
  default filter only includes open/in_progress)
- Deferred issues still block dependents (they are not done!)
- Deferred issues visible in 'bd list' and 'bd stale'

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Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

integrations/beads-mcp/src/beads_mcp/tools.py

@@ -317,7 +317,7 @@ async def beads_ready_work(
 
 
 async def beads_list_issues(
-    status: Annotated[IssueStatus | None, "Filter by status (open, in_progress, blocked, closed)"] = None,
+    status: Annotated[IssueStatus | None, "Filter by status (open, in_progress, blocked, deferred, closed)"] = None,
     priority: Annotated[int | None, "Filter by priority (0-4, 0=highest)"] = None,
     issue_type: Annotated[IssueType | None, "Filter by type (bug, feature, task, epic, chore)"] = None,
     assignee: Annotated[str | None, "Filter by assignee"] = None,
@@ -392,7 +392,7 @@ async def beads_create_issue(
 
 async def beads_update_issue(
     issue_id: Annotated[str, "Issue ID (e.g., bd-1)"],
-    status: Annotated[IssueStatus | None, "New status (open, in_progress, blocked, closed)"] = None,
+    status: Annotated[IssueStatus | None, "New status (open, in_progress, blocked, deferred, closed)"] = None,
     priority: Annotated[int | None, "New priority (0-4)"] = None,
     assignee: Annotated[str | None, "New assignee"] = None,
     title: Annotated[str | None, "New title"] = None,