feat: Rename 'wisp' to 'ephemeral' in beads API (bd-o18s)

BREAKING CHANGE: API field and CLI command renamed

- types.Issue.Wisp → types.Issue.Ephemeral
- JSON field: "wisp" → "ephemeral"
- CLI: bd wisp → bd ephemeral
- Flags: --wisp → --ephemeral
- ID prefix: wisp → eph

The SQLite column already uses 'ephemeral' so no schema migration needed.

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Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

cmd/bd/autoflush.go

@@ -671,7 +671,7 @@ func flushToJSONLWithState(state flushState) {
 	issues := make([]*types.Issue, 0, len(issueMap))
 	wispsSkipped := 0
 	for _, issue := range issueMap {
-		if issue.Wisp {
+		if issue.Ephemeral {
 			wispsSkipped++
 			continue
 		}