Adds atomic claim operation for work queue messages:
- New --claim flag on bd update command
- Sets assignee to claimer and status to in_progress
- Fails with clear error if already claimed by someone else
- Works in both daemon and direct modes
- Includes comprehensive tests for claim functionality
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Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
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