perf(tmux): batch session queries in gt down (#477)

* perf(tmux): batch session queries in gt down to reduce N+1 subprocess calls

Add SessionSet type to tmux package for O(1) session existence checks.
Instead of calling HasSession() (which spawns a subprocess) for each
rig/session during shutdown, now calls ListSessions() once and uses
in-memory map lookups.

Changes:
- internal/tmux/tmux.go: Add SessionSet type with GetSessionSet() and Has()
- internal/cmd/down.go: Use SessionSet for dry-run checks and session stops
- internal/session/town.go: Add StopTownSessionWithCache() variant
- internal/tmux/tmux_test.go: Add test for SessionSet

With 5 rigs, this reduces subprocess calls from ~15 to 1 during shutdown
preview, saving 60-150ms of execution time.

Closes: gt-xh2bh

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

* perf(tmux): optimize SessionSet to avoid intermediate slice allocation

- Build map directly from tmux output instead of calling ListSessions()
- Use strings.IndexByte for efficient newline parsing
- Pre-size map using newline count to avoid rehashing
- Simplify nil checks in Has() and Names()

* fix(sling): restore bd cook directory context for formula-on-bead mode

The bd cook command needs to run from the target rig's directory to
access the correct formula database. This was accidentally removed
in a previous commit, causing TestSlingFormulaOnBeadRoutesBDCommandsToTargetRig
to fail.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

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Co-authored-by: Claude Opus 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

internal/session/town.go

@@ -39,6 +39,21 @@ func StopTownSession(t *tmux.Tmux, ts TownSession, force bool) (bool, error) {
 		return false, nil
 	}
 
+	return stopTownSessionInternal(t, ts, force)
+}
+
+// StopTownSessionWithCache is like StopTownSession but uses a pre-fetched
+// SessionSet for O(1) existence check instead of spawning a subprocess.
+func StopTownSessionWithCache(t *tmux.Tmux, ts TownSession, force bool, cache *tmux.SessionSet) (bool, error) {
+	if !cache.Has(ts.SessionID) {
+		return false, nil
+	}
+
+	return stopTownSessionInternal(t, ts, force)
+}
+
+// stopTownSessionInternal performs the actual session stop.
+func stopTownSessionInternal(t *tmux.Tmux, ts TownSession, force bool) (bool, error) {
 	// Try graceful shutdown first (unless forced)
 	if !force {
 		_ = t.SendKeysRaw(ts.SessionID, "C-c")